usa_suxxx [they/them]

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Cake day: February 11th, 2022

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  • The act of hooking up reduces other people to sex objects to satisfy’s one needs.

    One is only trying to get rid of sexual urges and seeing other individuals as a medium for that.

    I mean. It kind of feels like you’re trying to invalidate the feeling of being desired as something that is valid. In the proper context, aka consent, being desired by another person is actually fun.

    One is not trying to make a connection with other humans by hooking up or trying to make a community by hooking up.

    As another comment mentioned that is atomization and individualistic.

    I’m not surprised to see this. It’s also something I encountered in real life with someone. I just think it’s a weird hangup. Like, very short term relationships are still relationships with obligations. I bought a homeless person some food on the street. I did not owe that homeless person anything but I had compassion and care for that person. Same thing for a hookup. Just because it’s just sex doesn’t mean I’m going treat them as disposable. I think it is itself individualistic to think as something that is short term as disposable and not something that still requires care and compassion.

















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    11 months ago

    HexBear is a leftist forum but the HexBear philosophy has always been to fight fire with fire. This works incredibly well against Right Wing Posters since everyone knows they are being assholes. This doesn’t work with Liberals since Liberals don’t think of themselves being offensive. The idea that HexBears are preaching Kremlin ideas, ideology or any of those ideas is incredibly offensive. It is pretty much saying, you can’t think for yourself. HexBear is capable of having respectful conversations but it really requires growth from both sides. HexBear needs to practice greater patience and Liberal posters really need to think about the implicit meaning of their words.